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He thought about you, ensuring you the moon and stars, but once he'd get you - it will disappear from the earth and leave behind the dust of stars. Meet: Single Teflon, the maniac they all love to hate
If every pot has a lid, then there is men who are non-stick pan. These same men who made their hobby measure of trade barriers as possible, put the lid (ie - the girl) for a period of hours, one night or several days, and move to the next conquest. These men are usually very Srmnteim and charm owners. They will come back after you stubbornly, ensure you pick the moon and the stars, and once they got you they will disappear from the earth, leaving behind only stardust.
Q neighboring women these men nickname "Useless", but I call them 'men will die alone. Most of these men are not evil in nature and do not attempt to deceive or harm intentionally. They are really excited about all the time, sure you is the girl for them, but a large nonstick skillet - this feeling is not sticky and it runs down and dissolving from them at the next girl. Here are some features and Profiles of the Teflon man.
This diagonal disaster
Teflon man spent his whole life as a bachelor, to being single has become a second skin for him, and a tiger as he did not change its spots. So used to living alone He built himself a distinct boundaries that protect the Spice of his own, and he will not get what 'Comfort Zone' for none of his.
Since he needs his safe place, he will not reach you. Instead he tries to convince you to come into the protected space and place of his house using excuses such as: "In my more spacious", "I have a dog / cat / plant to worry about him," "my house has a Playstation" (I sent the guy who told me this phrase to play with his joystick alone).
Teflon man spent his whole life as a bachelor, to being single has become a second skin for him, and a tiger as he did not change its spots. So used to living alone He built himself a distinct boundaries that protect the Spice of his own, and he will not get what 'Comfort Zone' for none of his.
Since he needs his safe place, he will not reach you. Instead he tries to convince you to come into the protected space and place of his house using excuses such as: "In my more spacious", "I have a dog / cat / plant to worry about him," "my house has a Playstation" (I sent the guy who told me this phrase to play with his joystick alone).
By the way, if a Teflon suggested that you spend the night, it's only because he was hoping you'd say 'no', and you should expect statements like "I always suggest the girls spend the night. So if you want you can sleep here" (as you feel now special and wanting to stay ?), and "I hug you with spoons but announced in advance not to stay long in that position."
If the disease still remains your dignity and, know you wake up with a sign on the back sole. Forget about a cup of coffee, a toothbrush or cuddling together in bed. Teflon pacing anxiously for two hours, looking for ways to kick you out. "I gotta go feed the cat of my brother," "I have to go to work" (on Saturday), or simply - "So you need a ride home or you'll get?", Are real phrases spoken her female friends.
Constant hunger
This problem with Teflon is that it's male often charismatic and charming men. Aunt those considered to fall below them (which makes it easy for them to kick you out). They include the most of your ability to charm and conquer your heart impulse to conquer again and again a new destination, so getting them to take some temporary excitement and they will be forced to turn to the next destination.
The Teflon man can be found mostly located in Tel Aviv, and for good reason. Tel Aviv there is an endless assortment of women, each more beautiful, cool, smarter and better than the last. This choice makes our men to be conducted as a child in a candy store. The problem is that the more sweets tasted so are less and less sweet, because instead appreciate the flavor of the moment, we have been fantasizing about future tastes.
Emotionally crippled
Excess options and emotions often cause the Teflon man claim that he need not be tied to one relationship requires. It is shut out from the possibility of love and leaves her open to blunder. This man we call "emotional cripple" because he is unable to connect to feelings of love even if they put him goodbye at the top. The number in Tel Aviv is so great that there is concern that the day will also allocate parking spaces for disabled emotionally, really will not be more in store.
If women often stay in relationships for fear of being alone, the emotionally crippled because they are afraid to go to be together. And just when they most want to stay then they'll break the dishes, but the pan - which they will put another layer of Teflon and set off.
Love you and it
Sub-genre is these emotional cripples who do not believe in monogamy. Declaration of the only love you get from them is something like "I love you. Even you. There are a few I love." Eggs are the kind championed freedom because they have no eggs in one true love commitment. The same guys who are willing to only open relationship, it is clear that they are mostly not closed on themselves.
Commitment? Perhaps in the future
Contact butterfly you will find only the laces, that our bow sure he has a flaw that allows it to be about. Just before he disappeared, he mumbles apologetically: "I'm not built to link" or "we want different things. You want something I can not give." But do not forget that the source of the butterfly chrysalis.
Ironically, women are drawn like a moth to a flame just for men with a fear of commitment. In the end, those butterflies flying to the next destination, and if your hara-kiri in the fire will make you burn. I can not explain this attraction apart from masochism, but as S - S & M has a code word they say to stop everything, so also in connection with a similar word. When they say "Do not communicated to me" - it's time to loosen the ropes.
If by the end of their 20s Teflon man proud and Mthllim, at least among themselves, conquest, then in the 30s they begin to be concerned. Hunting campaign becomes compulsive, exhilaration passing game victory, and the prey was not guaranteed palates. Many fear that if they keep track of life that are actually going to die alone. They feel that every day more in which they are single reduces the chances of being in relationships, because they practice and become addicted to solitude on the one hand and to produce other occupation.
Although it seems on the face is good for them instead of the current, these men believe there's something wrong and inherently wrong with them. They also increased the nuclear family dream and aspire, and the gap between himself and the way of life creates a dissonance for them. Maybe the problem is that they want to receive love, but do not know how to give.
Female common mistake is to get involved with this kind man, even when they recognize that the butterfly. Covered in thinking they succeed in changing him back to the straight, despite hundreds of women have failed. Apparently men make us weak in statistics. Some men can not save, and the top of the list are those who define themselves as defective. So even if you desire to fix burning man lost - Leave it, you lived Rbak.
